Stop scamming patients by pretending there’s a cure for Fibromyalgia. People are tired of hearing if they do “ONE EASY THING!!” all their symptoms will go away,
Generic suggestions that definitely do not cure Fibromyalgia
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Get more sleep
Everyone with Fibromyalgia wants more sleep. Fibro patients go to sleep tired and wake up tired. They have difficulty both falling and staying asleep. Add to that painsomnia and it makes for a lot of sleepless nights. If people with Fibro could get more sleep, they would. It’s too simplistic to say if people with Fibromyalgia manage their sleep habits, they’ll be cured.
To read more about sleep and Fibromyalgia, check out Ultimate guide to fibromyalgia and how to treat it
2. Get more exercise
If I had a dollar for every time exercising is thrown at me as a fix for all my problems, I’d be rich. Here’s the issue though, Saturday was a beautiful day so I spent 20 minutes weeding my flower beds which were in dire need of some attention. Here it is Monday and I am still in so much pain I can hardly walk, all from spending 20 minutes pulling weeds. Imagine what would happen if I tried to run or lift weights.
Exercise results for people in pain are mixed. Overall exercise is generally good, but it has to be tailored to the person and their body. This involves the expertise of a physical therapist, something that is not available to many people with Fibro.
Exercise results for people in pain are mixed. Overall exercise is generally good, but it has to be tailored to the person and their body. Click To TweetYoga is typically suggested as a universal cure for all illnesses. Yoga is a great tool for coping with pain, but All the yoga in the world can’t make chronic pain disappear.
3. Eat healthy food
Diet is a tricky subject for people with Fibromyalgia. Many of us have found that changing our diet in certain ways makes us feel better, but many of us have found it doesn’t change anything at all. The problem is that these solutions rarely fix everything for everyone, but doctors love to use them as a bludgeon to convince patients their pain is their fault. YOU CAN’T CURE FIBROMYALGIA OR CFS/ME WITH FOOD, you can only mitigate symptoms.
4. Lower your pain levels
If only it were that easy. Many doctors are reluctant to hand out opioids because they are afraid of getting in trouble. Especially doctors who treat many chronic pain patients because they have to worry about being investigated for handing out too many narcotics. Also, many patients who ask for pain medicine are labeled drug seekers and addicts, and then it’s impossible to get help.
Additionally, the sexism and racism in the medical system deny women and POC treatment for pain or even acknowledgment of it.
Women are:
- More likely to be given sedatives for their pain, while men are more likely to be given pain medication.
- Less likely than men to be admitted to intensive care units and to get certain procedures, once they arrive there; they are also more likely to die in the ICU.
- Going to have to wait longer than men before they get any pain medicine in the ER—65 minutes on average, compared with 49 for men.
Meanwhile:
- Black children regularly receive less pain treatment than white children
- Half of a sample of white medical students and residents believe that black people feel less pain than white people because their skin is thicker
And the depressing statistics go on and on. There is no guarantee that seeing a doctor, or even dozens of doctors will produce any results.
And if you try non-pharmaceutical methods, they can have mixed results. Pain relief without medication has its uses, I love my heating pad, Epsom salts baths, pain relieving creams, and pain relief devices. But when my pain gets bad they are all useless. Only opioids can bring my levels down and I haven’t had access to those in years.
#5- Having a good attitude
If only life were so simple that having a positive attitude cures all illnesses. Positive thinking is a coping mechanism, not a cure. Sometimes bad things happen to good people, and they aren’t fixable. It’s a scam to tell patients their attitude will make all their problems go away. Of course, having a good attitude will lighten your load, but it won’t change your circumstances.
It’s time to stop lying to Fibromyalgia and chronic illness patients. By its very nature, chronic illness is chronic. It’s not laziness or faking. You haven’t been able to cure yourself because there is no cure.
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Amen sister! I swear, these articles HAVE to be written by someone who has never had FMS, and is ‘wikipedi-ing’ it!
I know! I can’t believe sometimes how little research people put into these things.
So true! These are often so overly simplified. And sadly, delivered in a way that sounds like the writer thinks we just don’t understand how simple it is to cure ourselves.
Hear hear.
I am loving my new doctor! While a G.P., her specialties are Women’s Health and Chronic Disease Management. What could be better for a woman with fibro? Her plan is to work with me on ways to reduce the amount of medication I am taking. Because I have SAD and osteoarthritis, we are waiting for warmer weather and more sunshine, though.
Thanks for this article. Trying to explain FMS to people who’ve never experienced anything like it is nearly impossible. It’s exhausting just trying, so I usually don’t even try.
I have found 3 things that work very well for me.
1) Malic Acid/Magnesum supplements such as: https://www.luckyvitamin.com/p-19209-trask-nutrition-fibro-malic-natural-fibromyalgia-relief-180-capsules
2) Excluding gluten and all nightshade vegetables from my diet. Unfortunately, those are some of my very favorite foods, but the difference I feel in my levels of pain is worth the sacrifice.
3) teas made from herbs: Bayleaf tea (2-3 bayleaves boiled in 2 cups of water) with a dash of cinnamon for nice flavor is a great natural pain reliever that doesn’t upset my stomach; turmeric and ginger tea does a lot to help decrease the inflammation.
I understand that avoiding caffeine and sugar are also very helpful, but a girl does have her limits. 😉
I am not pain free, however, on a daily basis, my pain levels have gone from 8-10 down to 2-4, and I am very thankful that I am able to continue working and enjoying my life for the most part. I do still tire much more easily than those without FMS and I continue to look for natural ways to manage this disease. I hope that this info will help someone else to enjoy life just a little bit more as well.
I’m so glad you’ve found some things that work for you. I love herbal tea, I especially like it at night to help me relax.